Love & Relationships

Deconstructing romance: Why all love is real love

Opinion Lately, romantic love has been under a lot of scrutiny, with more people leaning toward prioritising familial, communal, and platonic love in their lives, as opposed to treating romantic love as the be-all and end-all. Also see: The economics of dating: Is it hard to find love or just expensive? For a relatively good chunk […]

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The village and the villager: How to participate in community

“The price of community is inconvenience.” That famous phrase is entering people’s vocabulary as many start to pursue community. Also see: The economics of dating: Is it hard to find love or just expensive? In the digital age where isolation and ‘cut-off’ culture are promoted, many are intentionally starting to seek out community, and yet a […]

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The economics of dating: Is it hard to find love or just expensive?

The dating landscape in 2026 is increasingly complex, with the pursuit of long-term relationships seemingly taking a backseat among young adults. Also see: Ways to reconnect with your partner Negative attitudes towards dating have grown in recent years, with many women experiencing dating fatigue while some men venture deeper into the manosphere. The widening divide between […]

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Ways to reconnect with your partner

Even strong relationships can go through periods when couples feel less connected. Busy schedules, work, family responsibilities, financial pressure and everyday routines can leave little time for meaningful conversations and quality time. Also see: Why physical and emotional intimacy both matter in a relationship Feeling disconnected doesn’t necessarily mean a relationship is failing. Sometimes, couples […]

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BrideVibes: Where the modern bride meets heritage, expert advice and inspiration

What happens when you bring a room full of brides-to-be together, add a beautiful brunch, trusted industry experts, leading wedding suppliers and a little fashion inspiration? You get BrideVibes — an exclusive bridal experience created to give women preparing to say “I do” a morning designed entirely around them. Also see: Bride & Co embraces culture […]

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Online dating safety: Red flags every South African should know

Dating in the digital age has changed the way people meet and form relationships. For many South Africans, platforms such as dating apps, Facebook, Instagram and WhatsApp can provide opportunities to connect with new people. Also see: Are they dating? Zolisa Xaluva’s gesture toward Pearl Thusi sparks couple speculation. However, online dating also comes with […]

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Love, closeness and conflict: Understanding attachment styles

Relationships can be complicated, particularly when two people have different ways of dealing with closeness, conflict, and emotional vulnerability. Also see: How social media is changing human relationships Understanding attachment style can provide useful insight into why a partner may seek reassurance, withdraw during disagreements, or feel comfortable relying on others. In adult relationships, researchers […]

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Why physical and emotional intimacy both matter in a relationship

A relationship can have plenty of conversations and still feel distant. It can also have a healthy sex life without creating the deeper sense of security that comes from truly knowing your partner. That is where physical and emotional intimacy come in. Also see: Can flirting be considered emotional cheating? Intimacy is not only about sex. It can be holding hands, […]

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Beyond the bruises: Understanding the signs of relationship abuse

Love and relationships should be built on trust, respect, and safety. However, abuse does not always begin with obvious violence. In many cases, it starts with small behaviours that gradually become patterns of control, fear, or emotional harm. Recognising the warning signs can help you better understand what is happening and seek support when needed. Violence against […]

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Can flirting be considered emotional cheating?

The question of whether flirting is considered cheating has sparked countless debates among couples, relationship experts, and even friends. While some see harmless flirting as a natural form of social interaction, others view it as a betrayal that can damage trust. The answer often depends on the boundaries, expectations, and values shared within a relationship. Also […]

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Love in low-key mode: The benefits of quiet dating

In this world, relationships are often shared publicly through social media posts, couple photos, and constant updates, but a growing number of people are choosing a different approach: quiet dating. Also see: Financial red flags in romantic relationships A practice of keeping your romantic relationship private, particularly during the early stages. Instead of announcing every […]

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How to rebuild trust after an argument

Let’s face it… No relationship is perfect, and arguments are bound to happen. After a clash with your partner, it’s important to rebuild trust and get back to that healthy position you were in before. Also see: Tiny relationship habits that build long-term trust Rebuild trust in a relationship Open communication about feelings and past mistakes […]

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