A debate that has left many relationships “breathing through the wound” long are the days where women are the only recipients of gifts, men are also expecting to be spoiled and to receive gifts.
Although, some men think Valentine’s should only be about showing love and appreciation to women and doing big romantic gestures.
Activity Superstore Blog shares the psychology behind gift giving, where gender roles don’t even factor. “The practice of gifting has existed since the beginning of human civilization. It may even predate it, with our closest ancestral relatives having shown signs of gift giving. Researchers believe that cavemen gave presents like unusual shaped rocks or animal teeth to strengthen social connection and show their appreciation to others. As social structures developed, the gifts became more elaborate and decorative.”
Facebook user Sithembele Tutuse wrote on facebook “Valentine’s Day is upon us. please ladies try to be romantic the way you want us to be (expensive). This is your year to show us.”
Perhaps it’s high time we switch things up, not according to the society but to share the gift of appreciation to your partner.
The question that always comes to mind is, are women terrible at buying gifts for men or is it just an entitlement that women deserve gifts more?
For example, 3 things that come to mind when you are buying a gift for a man are: socks, watch or perfume.
Absolutely no one can tell you what to buy for your man because they are all different and each gift has to suit their personality. If you love the day so much and have the means, we suggest you do something about it.
Also see: Galentine’s Day ideas
