There’s a unique kind of power and pleasure in making certain purchases. Not for the sake of extravagance, but because they symbolize moments of growth, self-love, and alignment with the woman you’re becoming. Some purchases serve as a rite of passage, others as self-care, and a few as sheer indulgence.
Here are 7 purchases every woman should make at least once in her life:
1. A signature fragrance – That makes people turn around
Your scent tells a story long before you say a word. Not “cute”, not “fresh”, but investing in a high-quality, signature fragrance is about more than smelling divine – it’s about finding a scent that reflects your energy, presence, and personality, the scent that makes strangers remember you even after you’ve left the room. Whether it’s sultry and warm, floral and feminine, or bold and mysterious, your signature scent should make you feel unforgettable.
Pro tip: Presence is power
2. A timeless piece of jewellery
Every woman deserves to own one piece of jewellery that feels eternal. Think – a gold chain, diamond studs, a vintage ring, or a meaningful charm bracelet. It’s a piece you wear through different seasons of life, something that holds stories, memories, or milestones. It doesn’t have to be flashy, but it should feel deeply yours.
3. A power outfit – That changes the way you walk
Whether it’s a tailored blazer, a killer pair of heels, or that dress that fits like a dream, every woman should own at least one outfit that makes her feel unstoppable. This is the outfit you wear when you’re closing deals, going on interviews, pitching ideas, or even walking into a room where you need to be heard and respected.
4. A luxury experience just for you or a solo trip
It could be a solo trip to a beautiful destination, a stay at a boutique hotel, a first-class flight, or a spa day at a five-star retreat. Treating yourself to a luxury experience – even if just once – reminds you that you are worthy of beautiful things, not because you earned them, but because you exist.
5. High-quality skincare
Gone are the days of using whatever was on sale at the drugstore. At least once in your life, invest in a skincare routine or a single product that feels like self-respect in a jar. A luxe serum, a facial oil that feels like silk, or a high-end moisturizer can feel transformative – not just for your skin, but for your self-worth.
6. Something that scares you (in a good way)
Maybe it’s investing in your own business or enrolling in a course that feels out of your comfort zone. This kind of purchase is symbolic – it says, I trust myself enough to take the leap. These are the choices that help you grow, evolve, and meet the next version of yourself.
7. A statement piece that sparks joy
Fashion is more than function – it’s self-expression. Buy that bold coat, that bright pair of heels, or that bag you’ve been eyeing for years. A statement piece doesn’t have to follow trends – it just has to light you up when you wear it. Life is too short to only dress practically.
Other once in a life time purchases include:
- Lingerie that one will see – except you
- A professional photoshoot that captures your fire and passion
- A silk pillow case
Some purchases are emotional. Others are practical. But the best ones are those that connect you more deeply to who you are and who you want to be. These seven aren’t just “things” you are buying – they’re experiences, symbols, and memories in the making. Whether you’re 25 or 65, give yourself permission to say yes to yourself, even just once.
You’re worth every cent.
First published on Woman & Home
Words compiled by: Amy Steenkamp
Also see: Tips to keep your knit-wear looking and feeling fresh
