Married men share their biggest regrets and advice on TikTok

by Samantha Mochele

We live in a digital age where social media platforms serve as forums for conversations to happen, TikTok has become a hub for discussions ranging from light-hearted humour to profound life insights.

Recently, a video posted by TikTok user Kingboiza under the hashtag #menconference2025 sparked a significant dialogue among married men, shedding light on their experiences and offering advice to those who are yet to tie the knot.

Kingboiza’s video posed a straightforward yet profound question: “Married men, what is your greatest regret about marriage? Advise the single boys, it could be about anything.” The responses poured in, revealing lessons learned from the realities of married life.

Many married men reflected on aspects of their lives they wished they had approached differently. Some emphasised the importance of patience and commitment in navigating the ups and downs of married life. They advised singles to choose their partners wisely and be prepared for challenges.

Taking to the comments one user said: “My biggest regret in my marriage was to cheat and am telling you…my wife was never the same….so my advice is never cheat never ever.”
Another one said; “I have no regret I always tell her that I can propose every day. I can marry her every day she is a blessing to me I love you MaNgidi my everyday prayer is to keep our vows that we made.”
One user added: “Not all women age gracefully with all their good looks and physique. Marry her for more reasons beyond her body and beauty. Seek a FOREVER.”
One also added and said: “I’m regretting having friends who are not married while I’m married.”
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