When Banter Becomes Bullying
There’s a video clip doing the rounds right now, one that’s got South Africans reeling. It shows musician Ngizwe Mchunu on the show Podcast and Chill making remarks about Sol Phenduka’s weight, using the phrase “sdudla mafehlefehle.” A phrase some have taken as a direct act of body shaming. The backlash was instant.
For many, it crossed the line between edgy roast and outright cruelty. Online, listeners and fans of the podcast are debating where humour ends, and where harm begins.
A Podcast Moment Gone Viral
The interview aired on 9 October 2025, with Sol Phenduka hosting Ngizwe. A snippet shared on X (formerly Twitter) captured the moment the insult was thrown. Within hours, it spread across social media, shared by users appalled, disappointed, and worried.
Phenduka’s fans rallied behind him. Some voiced support, and some expressed frustration that a space meant for dialogue had become a platform for personal attacks.
People React, Some with Shock, Some with Hurt
A user on X wrote, “Wait, did he call him ‘sdudla mafehlefehle’? That’s body shaming, man.” Others pushed back, saying, “It’s just banter between guys.” Still others reminded us how sensitive weight can be. One comment said, “Weight is a sensitive topic. Let’s be kind.”
Noteworthy: many expressed disappointment in Ngizwe, who had already been under scrutiny after being denied entry into a popular club and for earlier controversies involving homophobic statements.
Context You Should Know
Sol Phenduka is a well-known radio personality in South Africa. He used to work at Kaya FM and has a strong following.
Ngizwe Mchunu, besides his music, has been involved in multiple controversies. In the days before this podcast episode, he was reportedly denied entry to Kwa Mai-Mai over remarks he had made. This latest clip adds fuel to growing criticisms about his public conduct and the lines he crosses in the media.
Wait, did Ngizwe Mchunu call Sol Phenduka “S’dudla mafehlefehle”? 😳 That’s body shaming man…🤮
This episode was supposed to be a teachable moment, I feel robbed 💔 pic.twitter.com/3OGdEfqPHg
— YaseBlock B 🇸🇿 (@ThisIsColbert) October 9, 2025
The Thin Line Between Roasting and Harm
The most interesting question this brings up is about intention and impact. It’s one thing to roast a public figure, something we see often in South African entertainment, but when comments attack physical appearance, they hit deeper. They affect self-esteem and reflect harmful norms about bodies.
In a society where many people already struggle with social pressures around appearance, calling someone “fat” under the guise of humour isn’t harmless. It reinforces judgment and stigma.
A Call for Respect, Accountability, and Better Conversations
At its core, this moment reminds us of accountability. Public figures, especially those with platforms, carry responsibility for what they say. And in the age of social media, listeners become amplifiers.
Whether Ngizwe apologises, doubles down, or ignores the backlash, this episode is now part of his public narrative. For viewers and fans, it’s a caution: the way we talk to, or about, others still matters.
Source: Briefly News
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