When an invitation arrives with the words “Black tie” or “White tie,” it signals a formal affair. Elegance, sophistication, and etiquette are non-negotiable, and you might find yourself in a panic, wondering what to wear.
Let’s break down the essential style rules and timeless advice for both Black tie and White tie events so you can attend in style—and with confidence.
Black tie for women: Glamour with grace
Black tie is formal, but not the most formal. Think galas, elegant weddings, and some red carpet events.
Look requirements:
Floor-length gown: The classic choice. Opt for sleek silhouettes and rich fabrics like silk, satin, velvet or chiffon. Darker shades and jewel tones shine at black tie events. Embellishments—such as beading, lace or metallic threads—are welcome.
Chic alternatives: In modern settings, a formal jumpsuit or tailored tuxedo-style ensemble can work, paired with elegant heels and refined accessories. Always consider the event’s tone before choosing a less traditional look.
Shoes: Closed-toe or peep-toe heels in luxurious finishes like satin, velvet or metallic leather. Comfort matters, but style leads.
Accessories: Statement jewellery, an elegant clutch (not a handbag), and optional evening gloves. Let your accessories elevate your outfit without overwhelming it.
Hair & makeup: Polished and intentional. Updos, soft waves or sleek ponytails all work. Makeup can be more dramatic—bold lips, smokey eyes or luminous skin suit the occasion.
Pro tip: The colour palette for black tie isn’t limited to black, but it remains the go-to. Feel free to play with colour, especially to match the season.
White tie for women: The height of formality
White tie is the most formal of all dress codes. It’s reserved for royal galas, state dinners and high-society balls.
Look requirements:
Full-length ball gown: This is the moment for dramatic silhouettes. Think couture-level gowns with structured bodices, voluminous skirts or sleek dresses with train detailing. Rich fabrics and couture details are encouraged.
Gloves: Opera-length gloves are traditional and often expected. They are usually removed for dining.
Shoes: Closed-toe or elegant evening sandals in coordinating tones. Style comes first, but comfort still counts.
Accessories: Fine jewellery—real diamonds, pearls or precious stones. Statement pieces are acceptable, but taste and harmony are key. Clutch bags should be small and refined.
Hair & makeup: Formal updos or beautifully styled hair. Makeup should be classic and polished—timeless rather than trendy.
Tips for both dress codes
Tailoring matters: Even the most expensive gown will fall flat if it doesn’t fit perfectly.
Respect the tone of the event: A modern art gala might welcome a contemporary twist, while a diplomatic white tie dinner won’t.
Confidence is your best accessory: Poise, posture, and presence will complete your look far more than any gown or jewel.
Black tie is your chance to feel like a movie star. White tie is your moment to channel regal sophistication. Both are about celebrating the occasion with style, grace and intention. Embrace the elegance—and step into the room knowing you’re dressed not just for the code, but for the moment.
First published by: Woman & Home
Words compiled by: Amy Steenkamp
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