In a recent interview, South African icon Somizi Mhlongo reflected on lessons he learned from his previous marriage to Mohale Motaung, which only lasted nine months. What seemed like a whirlwind romance quickly dissipated shortly after their lavish wedding a few years ago. Also see: Somizi Mhlongo set to launch ‘Life Lessons’ podcast “Don’t ignore red […]
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Money can strengthen a relationship, but it can also become a major source of conflict when financial habits and values don’t align. While every couple approaches finances differently, recognising financial red flags early can help prevent stress, debt and broken trust. Also see: How to protect yourself: Spotting red flags in online shopping Secretive spending One […]
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Accepting a new job can be exciting, especially if you’ve been searching for work for a while. However, not every job offer is as good as it seems. While some employers are transparent and professional, others may present offers that leave out important details or raise concerns once you start working. Also see: How to […]
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You set your alarm for 4:40am. You pitch up in the dark. Then the crew takes off at a fast pace and you never see them again. That’s getting ghosted at 5am. And it’s the fastest way to quit running. Also see: Running smart: How to prevent injury and recover well SA’s running club scene is […]
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Embarking on a journey towards better mental health is a brave and important step. Mental health awareness is growing, more people are seeking professional help to navigate life’s challenges. However, just like any service, not all therapists are created equal. Choosing the right therapist can make all the difference in your healing process. Also see: Why […]
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Reader’s letter:Hi Zola, I don’t even know where to start. I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years, and I truly believed we were solid. We’ve spoken about marriage, building a future, all of it. But last weekend, while he was in the shower, I did something I’m not proud of: I went through his […]
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10 Red Flags in a Relationship Most Men Ignore (Until It’s Too Late) It usually starts small. A comment that feels slightly off. A moment where something doesn’t sit right. But instead of addressing it, many men brush it off — “It’s not that serious.” Fast forward a few months (or years), and suddenly that […]
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Buying a second-hand car can be an exciting experience. It provides a more affordable option for getting behind the wheel and travelling conveniently. However, thorough research is crucial. As reported by EWN, it’s important to visit verified dealers and consult reputable websites to avoid any potential issues. Also see: Tata makes its return to the South African […]
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Periods vary from person to person, but any menstrual symptom that disrupts your daily life or deviates significantly from your norm may be trying to tell you something important. Here are five period red flags that warrant attention. 1. Heavy or very prolonged bleeding Consistently soaking through pads or tampons in under two hours, bleeding for […]
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In the modern dating landscape, the “talking stage” has become a crucial phase that precedes the formal commitment of a relationship. This phase is characterised by getting to know someone on a deeper level, testing compatibility, and determining whether there’s potential for a more serious connection. While it’s an exciting time, it’s also important to […]
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It is not easy to spot red flags when in a relationship. No matter how long you have been with your partner, it is worth occasionally reevaluating the health of your relationship. WebMD has provided seven red flags you should look out for. Anger Although it is a normal human emotion, anger is difficult to […]
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We often take note of the red flags to look out for in others, but we rarely ever take note of the red flags to look out for in ourselves. Even though it’s important for us to realise that letting go of the past and embracing the present are the only ways we can truly […]
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