Reader’s Letter: Dear Zola, My husband wants to invite his mom for Mother’s Day, but I feel it should be my day too. I don’t want to host his mother on a day meant to celebrate me. How do we handle this without conflict? Hi there, Mother’s Day can get complicated when expectations don’t line […]
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Reader’s letter:Hi Zola, I feel like something is wrong with me. My partner and I have been together for four years, and he has a much higher sex drive than I do. In the beginning, it wasn’t as noticeable, but over time, the gap has become really obvious. He initiates often, and more and more […]
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Reader’s letter:Hi Zola, Last year, I found out my husband had been having an affair with a colleague. It completely broke me. We’ve been married for nine years, and we have two children. When everything came out, he was apologetic, ended the relationship immediately, and promised to do whatever it takes to fix our marriage. […]
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Reader’s letter:Hi Zola, I’ve been dating my boyfriend for just over a year, and I really do love him. He has a child with his ex, and I knew that coming in, I’ve always respected that she will be part of his life because of their child. But lately, it feels like there are no […]
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Reader’s letter:Hi Zola, I never thought I’d be the kind of woman writing in about a “work wife”… but here I am. My husband and I have been married for six years, and up until recently, I trusted him completely. He’s always spoken about this colleague of his, let’s call her N, as just a […]
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Reader’s letter:Hi Zola, I don’t even know where to start. I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years, and I truly believed we were solid. We’ve spoken about marriage, building a future, all of it. But last weekend, while he was in the shower, I did something I’m not proud of: I went through his […]
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