South African comedian, Mongezi Mahlangu popularly known as Toll Ass Mo recently issued an apology to reality TV star and famous sangoma Tumi Motsoeni Shange who is popular as Gogo Skhotheni.
This follows after he found himself entangled in controversy, after making insensitive remarks regarding the passing of Gogo Skhotheni’s son, Monde Jnr Shange during an episode of Podcast and Chill.
While he was a guest on the podcast, he shared insights about traditional healers who use muti while pregnant. Explaining his sentiments, he implied that Gogo Skhotheni’s spiritual calling and rituals may have contributed to Monde Jnr’s death.
Seeing that his comments were hurtful following a response from Gogo Skhotheni and her husband, Monde Shange; the comedian retracted his statement and apologised. In a now deleted Instagram post that said: “I want to take a moment to sincerely apologise for my words. In the heat of the moment, I spoke without truly understanding the depth of pain that comes with losing a child. I realise now how insensitive my words may have been, and I deeply regret any hurt I may have caused,” he wrote.
He further added that he takes accountability for his words and that he apologises profusely. “Loss is something no-one should have to experience, and I can’t begin to imagine the pain of those who have. I take full accountability for my words, and I am truly sorry. Moving forward, I will be more mindful and considerate in my speech, ensuring that I lead with empathy and understanding.”
In the end of his apology, Tol Ass Mo stated that he won’t celebrate his 39th birthday until Gogo Skhotheni forgives him.
Reacting to the remarks shared on the podcast, Monde took to his Instagram page to express his frustration.
Monde said Tol Ass Mo crossed a line for speaking about the loss of their son with disrespect and ignorance on a public platform. He revealed that he did not appreciate the comment made by Tol Ass Mo about his wife and their late son, and further stated that it was reckless and inhumane of him. In the end, he asked him to respect their loss, his wife and most importantly Monde Jnr’s memory.
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