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‘Do you want me to kill myself?’ asks Lady Zamar

An emotional Lady Zamar real name Yamikani Janet Banda took to her Twitter timeline to address all those who have been trolling her on social media whenever she makes a post. Lady Zamar has been facing a lot of trolls and backlash since alleging that Sjava real name Jabulani Hadebe had raped her in 2020.

Things got worse after the case was thrown out in court, on reasons that, the “state believed the facts or evidence did not support a successful prosecution,” reported the Sowetan.

Social media users have since been calling her out on all her posts, telling her that she needs to apologise to Sjava for accusing him of rape.

Lady Zamar shared on her Twitter:

“Why do you guys hate me so much? how have I become such an easy target for you guys?”

“You guys don’t know me or my full story and you don’t know why i’ve kept quiet for such a long time…you guys have no idea how you break a person.”

“I can’t move on from your assumptions of what happened to me… you’ve made your opinions my truth… what’s the end goal of all this hate and why are you so determined to believe a story that’s not even full or mine?… when I try to tell you my truth you guys don’t wanna hear it, when I try to move on you guys attack me.”

“How am  I supposed to exist in this space… and when I can  I just be me and not have to either explain or apologise to after you’ve commented on my stuff and said the most vile and evil tweets, what do you hope to achieve with it… what action would satisfy you guys.”

“Cause  I just can’t just live my life, I can’t just tweet and I can’t just voice my opinions about anything especially relationships please help me out here …can I move on or should I keep on apologising for trying my absolute best to move on… do you want me to kill myself,” she asked.

“Do you want me to die, be murdered, go to jail to make you guys happy… do you guys want me to stop making music or publicly cry so you can see how I actually feel about what happened to me?”

“Please tell me.”

She also commented on her post with a location emoji on picture of a noose that was captioned, “solution sometimes to your problems”, leaving other worried about her.

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