Find out more about the woman behind the Umlilo character.
How do you juggle your career and motherhood?
I don’t see it as juggling at all because every day comes with its own challenges. I have days when I’m handling motherhood, work and everything else going on in my life just fine; and other days “I don’t got it”, so I have come to accept that it happens. On such days, I allow myself to take some time out, get my nails done and breathe. I refuse to “juggle” because there is too much pressure in that.
If you weren’t an actress what would you be?
I’d probably be a vet or lawyer. 
What is your favourite South African destination?
There are too many to count. But the most recent one is Bushbuckridge where my partner is from. The people of this region wake up to the majestic, lush and evergreen view of the Drakensberg every day – free of charge. How close can one get to God? It is beautiful.
What would you advise an aspiring actress?
I would tell them to learn, read, learn and read some more. Watch people live their lives and draw from that. Acting is everyday life; the only difference is that we are given a script.
You’re very vocal on matters affecting artists, what is the biggest challenge you’ve faced as an actress?
Ageism, gender inequality and not being paid based on the quality of work I do. Women in the arts, like in many other industries, are paid far less than their male counterparts, and this cripples the industry. Yet, we work just as hard as men, and the same hours too! 
What lessons has motherhood taught you?
To calm down and breathe. Babies can’t speak; but, boy, can they communicate…
What more can fans expect from Nokuthula?
This part of my life is about exploration. Exploring talents that I had pushed back, like writing. I love writing and creating. I’d like to be able to speak to young women out there through my work.
Are you proud of the woman you have become?
Without a doubt, yes! All the years of questioning who I am are finally paying off. I trust myself more than I ever had.
What’s the biggest lesson you want to teach your daughter?
To trust herself more than anybody else, to trust her inner voice first and not be arrogant about it, as well as to accept and own that voice. Life and the universe will teach her the rest.
