Being a parent is a great responsibility that needs you to be physically, mentally and emotionally present. You invest your time and energy in your growing child and your life becomes more about them.
Whether you were prepared for parenthood or not, this is no child’s play, and whether you are well mature by age or still young, there’s no formula. However, you might find it more challenging if you are still at the age of growing yourself, where you are still discovering your dreams and aspirations and building your life towards them. This is probably around your early 20’s.
One person would say something contrary though, they would see starting a family at a young age as a beneficial decision, especially if it is all planned and with a life partner. Let us look deeply into the advantages and disadvantages of being a young parent.
Health and wellness experts provided their input;
Cons
Financial struggles: The Bubbalicious publication, which supports pregnant teenagers, states that money is undoubtedly the hardest thing for young parents to deal with. This publication also explains that since pregnancies in young people are typically unexpected, they typically experience unemployment in addition to having no finances. “In addition, aside from the cost of clothing, milk and other essentials, young parents also have to allocate money for rent, utility and other expenses. The problem is further magnified when the newborn baby is ill.”
Lifestyle sacrifices: The above source further mentions that young parents often have to drop out of school, and change careers and their social lives. “Clubbing, movies, weekend outings or even drinks with friends will no longer be an option. The needs of the baby must always come first; changing nappies without dirtying your shirt will be the highlight of most evenings.” It is also stated that parents will have to undergo maternity leaves and doctor visits that often conflict with entry-level jobs.
Social stigmas: According to Educational Wave, teenage pregnancy often comes with societal disapproval, leading to feelings of shame, isolation, and discrimination. The publication claims that this can negatively impact self-esteem, confidence, and access to essential support services. “Additionally, social stigma can lead to strained relationships with family and friends, further isolating young parents during a time when they most need support and understanding.”
Pros
Fast post-partum recovery: The PopSugar publication claims that a young parent, specifically a young mom, has more flexibility; you can pursue a crawling infant for hours on end without feeling exhausted, and you can kneel over a bathtub without experiencing back pain. It is also said that your body is likely to heal after birth if you are younger.
More time with your kids: You’ll probably get to see your kids retire and you will witness a great variety of seasons throughout your child’s life, this is according to Life Hack. The publication further states that you will “Most likely get more time with your children than someone who waited until their thirties.”
Start a family: If all goes well, the above publication states that being a young parent puts you in the position of starting a family earlier, where you will get to grow together with your child and partner.
Also see: Here is how you can claim your time as a working parent
