South African actress, model, dancer, and director Brenda Ngxoli courageously shared her recent struggles, including enduring abuse from her own sister.
In a post shared on social media platform X (formerly Twitter), Brenda opened up about the longstanding verbal abuse inflicted by her sister, Althea Lumka Ngxoli. The situation worsened significantly when Brenda, faced unemployment and returned home where her sister made her existence unbearable.
Shockingly, even after Brenda gave birth to her daughter Sky, her sister continued to subject her to relentless hostility.
Brenda detailed further allegations that her sister accused her of physically harming their mother and using drugs. She claimed that her sister, who accused her since Brenda’s time as a sangoma, had intentions to harm both her and their mother.
Earlier this year, Brenda also addressed an incident where actor David James reportedly used a racial term towards her calling her “k***ir meit” in front of the cast while filming the movie Sew the Winter to My Skin.
According to TimesLive, David James has admitted to using a racist slur towards Brenda Ngxoli during the filming. “I deeply regret any hurt Ms Ngxoli felt. I am sorry this regrettable incident still haunts her seven years later. I state unequivocally that I invite any further investigation of this incident by any competent authority including the Human Rights Commission. I would support every effort to ventilate this matter again thoroughly.”
Althea Lumka Ngxoli is her name. My Ungreatful Beloved sister who has made a Habit through the years of Verbally Abusing me at Every turn She wishes.Who has Allegedly been Spreading Vicious Rumours About me. Kindly Allow me to Elaborate . Today I Break Silence . pic.twitter.com/cgPdGAyb8v
— Brenda Ngxoli ???????? (@Ngxoli) June 15, 2024
Her False Allegations: I Beat Up My Mother . Allegedly telling people iAm on Drugs . In All Honesty I Left Sangomahood because She started accusing me of Trying to kill her and Mum(have receipts to follow) . I am behind her lack of Success in Life &Neva Graduating from Tsiba
— Brenda Ngxoli ???????? (@Ngxoli) June 15, 2024
I’ve been literally Homeless for nearly2 years now. Why must I leave ALL to them to Enjoy. Nithi mandiyephi for its Not Like Yal are going to House me. Why must the Victim make a Plan and Perpetrators be Left Alone. Kwaze kwabihlungu kum
— Brenda Ngxoli ???????? (@Ngxoli) June 16, 2024
Messages from 2022.
Instead of me Celebrating my New Baby …. Healing from C-section… Kodwa Akhonto. One day God will Reveal why I had to cry so Much pic.twitter.com/gmu8LNUNsu— Brenda Ngxoli ???????? (@Ngxoli) June 15, 2024
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