Sometimes we may think that we are doing a great job as friends and we may miss the small things that would cost us friendships and bonds we have created.
Friendship is a two-way street that needs to be reciprocated with the same energy no matter how busy you are. You should always be there for friends in times of need.
Here are some ways you can become a better friend suggested by HuffPost.
Be a good listener
According to HuffPost– website with experts that discuss the importance of friendships and relationships- as a friend you should be able to pay attention to what your friend is saying without interrupting them or trying to one-up them. You should also try and engage with them to show that you can hear, and you support what they are saying. In times of advice, be able to listen and tell them what they need to hear.
Do not gossip or share secrets
Having a friend means you have someone you trust, someone to share your secrets with and know that they are safe with them. HuffPost says that trustworthy and honesty is one of the essential attributes of friendship. You should be open and honest to your friends.
Show up for them
Showing up for your friends is a great way to show support and encouragement. According to HuffPost this can strengthen the friendship. It feels good knowing that you have someone who has your back, someone who loves and appreciates you.
Be understanding and forgiving
The above-mentioned source says that in a friendship you are not always going to see things the same way, you should leave room for understanding the other party. While there might be fights and disagreements, you should always be able to forgive and ask for forgiveness.
Give them compliments
Having someone who is your cheerleader is one of the best things that life can give you. Being supportive to your friends by giving them compliments on their successes can help you become a better friend, says HuffPost.
Also see: Friendships throughout the different stages of life
