Sometimes, it can be quite intimidating to strike up a conversation, especially at the workplace. While networking is a significant part of your career development, so is having a social relationship. As they say, communication is key. So, why not apply these tips to help keep a conversation going?
Grammarly provides a few methods that are sure to save a conversation from dying.
Actively listen
Listening instead of speaking allows the other participants to express themselves freely. You also want the person to know that you are listening so that they can feel valued, respected, and understood. This can be done by silently summarising what the person is saying as it can assist you to stay focused and keep the main points of the conversation in mind until it is your turn to speak, suggests Mind Tools.
Show interest through body language
Smiling, nodding, or maintaining a comfortable amount of eye contact are just some of the ways to effectively show someone your interest in them or the conversation, and encourage them to speak more.
Find common ground
As the conversation picks up, listen carefully to find out what you have in common with the person. Similar interests can create a bond that can be the foundation of a new relationship. If the person you are speaking to does not bring up similarities of their own, take the initiative to ask them a few questions.
Ask open-ended questions
Avoid yes and no questions as these will not get you the information you need; such questions can easily kill a conversation. Instead, ask questions using the five Ws and H – who, what, where, when, why and how. This will surely keep your conversation going.
Also see: How to manage difficult family relationships
