Meeting a partner’s family for the first time can be very nerve wracking. One of the first things that people worry about when going to meet their partners families for the first time, or anyone new for that matter, is their appearance.
No one wants to be seen as dull on an important day like this, at the same time no one wants to be seen as trying too hard by being overdressed. Not knowing what to expect in the meeting can also be scary. While worrying about the date is normal and expected, the nervous feeling is something that unfortunately goes with it.
In trying to make sure that you have a smooth meeting with your “potential future in-laws”, we have compiled a list of what not to do on a first date with your partner’s family, as provided by Everyday Chirp.
Do not dress inappropriately – make sure you dress appropriately for the occasion, taking into consideration the type of event and the family’s culture. If you’re unsure, it’s always best to err on the side of caution and dress more formally.
Do not be late – make sure you dress appropriately for the occasion, taking into consideration the type of event and the family’s culture. If you’re unsure, it’s always best to err on the side of caution and dress more formally.
Do not show up empty handed – bring a gift or a small token of appreciation to show that you’re grateful for the opportunity to meet them. It could be something as simple as a bouquet of flowers, a bottle of wine, or a box of chocolates.
Do not drink too much – avoid overindulging in alcohol as it may lead to inappropriate behavior or saying things you’ll regret later. Remember, you’re trying to make a good impression, so keep your drinking in check.
Do not be to too much on your phone – avoid using your phone during the meeting as it may show that you’re disinterested or disrespectful. Keep your phone on silent and give them your undivided attention.
Try and minimize PDA (public display of affection) – while it’s okay to show affection, avoid excessive PDA as it may make other family members uncomfortable. Be mindful of their culture and values and adjust your behavior accordingly.
Also see: How to make a great first impression
