Tag: intimacy

The surprising benefits of talking openly about sex

For many South Africans, talking about sex remains uncomfortable, private, or even taboo. Yet experts increasingly agree that open and honest discussions about sex can have significant benefits for individuals, relationships and overall well-being. Far from being awkward, talking openly about sex can help foster healthier connections and improve quality of life. Also see: Top Sex […]

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How to strengthen your relationship despite different love languages

Differences are a natural part of any relationship, but when partners express and receive love differently, misunderstandings can arise. Understanding and respecting each other’s love languages can help couples build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Also see: Top 5 modern relationship rules worth breaking Understanding different love languages The concept of love languages refers to the […]

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Top 5 tips to boost confidence in the bedroom

Confidence in the bedroom isn’t about perfection. It’s about feeling comfortable, connected and secure in yourself. Many people experience moments of self-doubt when it comes to intimacy, but building sexual confidence can have a positive impact on both your relationships and overall well-being. Also see: Ask Zola: “My partner wants sex all the time… and I […]

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How Often Do Happy Couples Have Sex? The Answer May Surprise You

How Often Do Happy Couples Have Sex? The Answer May Surprise You It’s one of the questions people rarely ask out loud but often wonder about: How often do happy couples actually have sex? Social media, movies and even conversations with friends can create the impression that everyone else is having more sex than you. […]

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15 Signs You Have a Healthy Sex Life

15 Signs You Have a Healthy Sex Life (It’s Not Just About How Often You Have Sex) When people think about a healthy sex life, they often focus on one thing: frequency. How often are couples having sex? Is once a week enough? What about once a month? The truth is that a healthy sex […]

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How to Talk About Your Sexual Needs With Your Partner

How to Talk About Your Sexual Needs With Your Partner (Without Awkwardness) Talking about sex with the person you care about can feel like navigating a maze, especially if you’re trying to be honest and considerate. In South Africa, where intimate topics are often wrapped in cultural modesty or humour, many couples end up relying […]

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‘My man ululates after sex, is that normal?’ A lady asks

When it comes to sex, people express their pleasure in different ways. Some partners are quiet during and afterwards, while others are noisy and vocal during intimacy. A TikTok content creator with the handle @SabrinaNamo left many internet users unable to contain their laughter after sharing a rather strange practice by her man after an […]

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5 Ways to spice up your sex life

Good sex is one aspect of life enjoyed by many in relationships as it has the potential to make us happy, especially when performed in a satisfactory way that pleases both partners. While sex might seem like an easy thing to do, it is not. Partners often need to take into account the other person’s […]

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Sex positions that may assist when trying for a baby

Trying to conceive is not an easy task to some as it is to others. This process may weigh heavy on the couple or the person trying to conceive, leading to unneeded stress that may further jeopardies the chances of falling pregnant. While it is evident that a person can fall pregnant during any sexual […]

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Tips for enhancing your intimacy

Intimacy is a vital component of any healthy and fulfilling relationship. It’s the emotional, physical, and mental closeness that brings partners closer and helps foster a deep and meaningful bond. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just starting out, there are several effective strategies you can employ to enhance your intimacy and strengthen your […]

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How to nurture trust and intimacy in relationships

Intimacy and trust are two of the most important elements in a good relationship. As a result of intimacy, you and your partner can feel more open and vulnerable with one another and develop a deeper emotional connection. As it opens up lines of communication and understanding between two individuals, it is also crucial for […]

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