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How to survive the festive season as a new mom

The holidays are upon us, and while the world is decking the halls, your life as a new mom might feel more like juggling tinsel with one hand and a baby with the other. Between sleep deprivation, family gatherings, and the pressure to make everything magical, surviving the festive season can feel overwhelming.

But don’t worry, you’ve got this. With a mix of self-care, clever planning, and a sprinkle of holiday cheer, you can navigate the season like a pro. Here’s your guide to thriving, not just surviving, as a new mom this holiday season.

During the holidays, it’s important to prioritise self-care and take care of yourself and your child. The Acenda Integrated Health advises that you say no to invitations and ask for help when needed. You are encouraged to take a break from buying gifts and cooking meals, as your presence is a present.

The above source also cautions that you babyproof your home by purchasing a gate or playpen around the base of a Christmas tree to protect your baby. “Motherhood is hard. Don’t hesitate to ask for help babysitting during a party or asking another family member to host a holiday dinner this year. Your support system is there for this exact reason.”

The Newborn Mothers publication states that to plan a successful Christmas, prioritise one activity each day, avoid catching up on family members on Christmas Day, and consider visiting people on Christmas Eve, Boxing Day, or other days.

It is also suggested that you schedule a nap for yourself to make the day easier for yourself and your baby.

Also see: The right way to wear your baby: Health benefits of this soothing technique

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