In the wake of her widely publicised split from Springbok captain Siya Kolisi, Rachel Kolisi is showing the world that grace, grit, and a good sense of humour can carry you through even the most dramatic of life changes.
Once living a life that looked like something out of a magazine—complete with international travel, luxury vehicles, and high-profile appearances—Rachel is now sharing a refreshingly down-to-earth version of herself. And she’s doing it with remarkable honesty and humour.
In a recent Instagram post that’s gained traction for its relatability and charm, Rachel wrote:
“Life has a funny way of humbling you just when you think you’ve got it all figured out. One day you’re riding high, the next you’re asking a friend to borrow their spare car and googling ‘how to parallel park a Yaris with dignity.’
It’s not forever. It’s just a chapter. But honestly? Betsy (the car) and I are kind of vibing, and I still nail clutch control.”
The post struck a chord with many of her followers, not just because it was funny, but because it was real. Rachel didn’t shy away from the challenges she’s facing—she leaned into them, inviting her audience into a moment that was both humbling and empowering.
Gone are the glossy snapshots of jet-setting and designer labels. In their place are glimpses of a woman rebuilding, recalibrating, and refusing to let hardship define her. Whether it’s laughing about driving a borrowed car or acknowledging that this is just “a chapter,” Rachel’s resilience shines through.
What’s clear is that, while the trappings of luxury may have changed, Rachel’s values remain firmly rooted. She’s still a devoted mother, still fiercely independent, and still carrying herself with the same strength and authenticity that earned her respect long before the limelight ever hit.
This season of her life might look different, but if Rachel Kolisi’s recent posts are anything to go by, it’s one that’s grounded in gratitude, personal growth, and even a little humour behind the wheel of a Yaris named Betsy.
First published by: Cape Town Etc
Words compiled by: Kate Wilson
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