First dates may be an exhilarating combination of nerves, excitement, and “wait—what do I even say next?” Making a good impression, starting a meaningful conversation, and—above all—determining whether there is a true connection are your goals.
Thoughtful, enjoyable, and occasionally unexpected questions are more important than following a checklist when it comes to a first date.
They make it easier to gauge someone’s character, values, and attitude without making it feel like an interview, which is not what we are going for, right?
According to One Love Foundation, to establish a connection on a first date, you can start with ice breaker questions, but are not limited to the following:
- What makes you unique? Find out if they enjoy sports, drawing, or reading, among other interests and pastimes. Learn interesting trivia about them.
- What do you wish you were better at or would like to learn more about? Find out what particular abilities or passions they’ve been hoping to develop.
- “Would You Rather…” questions are an excellent way to start a conversation and let both partners express their views. These questions may be superficial, in-depth, or playful, hence the term “ice breaker.”
Meanwhile, Top10.com, states that if you wish to ask more thought-provoking questions, asking these interesting questions on a first date can help you learn more about a possible partner’s personality which include knowing what a healthy relationship means to them, how they envision their lives in five years, and how they prefer to communicate. These inquiries can foster a solid, long-lasting relationship.
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