Social media was in a frenzy when digital creator, Kefilwe Mabote wore an extravagant dress with a train to someones wedding.
This raised the question of what is appropriate for guests to wear and what isn’t. During the festive season, the wedding invites mount up, we do not want you to be the guest everyone whispers about for being inappropriately dressed.
There isn’t much a couple can do to control what guests wear to their wedding besides specifying the dress code on the invitation, according to etiquette expert Lisa Grotts. Its important that guests remember what the day is about, its about celebrating the couple and their love, so avoid wearing anything that could distract from their special day.
However, our word is not the law, if you’re unsure of your outfit it is always best to consult the couple. We will only be providing a simple guideline of ‘unspoken rules’.
Do not wear white
Wearing white is by far the biggest mistake a wedding guest can do and is considered the “cardinal sin” of weddings. It is the bride’s special day, nobody should try to take it away from her. No matter how flattering white may look on you, avoid wearing it for one day because there is a very high chance that you may be mistaken for the bride.
Do not upstage the bride
Weddings are a great reason to treat yourself to a lovely new outfit, but try not to overdo it. It is recommended to stay away from prom dresses, maxi dresses with trains, and multicolored sequins that shout “look at me.”
Avoid wearing anything too revealing
Wearing transparent materials, plunging necklines, and cutaway dresses requires vigilance. Avoid anything overly risqué or adventurous because weddings are typically daytime celebrations for families.
We have an honorary mention that has nothing to do with your outfit but is as equally offensive if not worse.
Do not get embarrassingly drunk
Always be in control of your alcohol intake, you do not want to embarrass yourself and the couple. No one forgets that one guest that got too drunk, grabbed the mic and started acting out of character.
Also see: Pre-wedding skincare: The don’ts
